Why We Form Relationships

Why We Form Relationships Corbin Smith Estrella freshet Community College There are many reasons as to why we habitus births with a person. Appearance is one of those reasons. Most people claim that a persons personality is the main reason why we accomplish into a birth with them and not by the way they face which is unfeignedly not true. There has to be some type of attraction towards their bearing because the way they look is extremely important in the early stages of a relationship.Even if your fashion isnt considered beautiful by societal standards, people result find you attractive if youre just ordinary-looking with an amazing personality that fits the new(prenominal) persons needs. Attractive beauty may open doors to a relationship that it understands way more than just being attractive to continue a relationship going. Forming relationships is the ultimate way to gaining attraction and love towards a current person that you might want to be with for the rest of your life. Forming relationships is a attainment that not many people consider to be important solely its a skill that most people want so they can find their lifelong partner.My understanding of this skill is that we altogether choose used it at some point in our lives to form relationship, whether if its just a companionship or more than that. Like I said before, appearance is one of the main things that jumpstart a relationship but it wont be the only trait thatll keep a bond going. Similarity, complementary, competence, disclosure, proximity, and rewards are all factors in how relationship is formed. Ive used this skill plenty of measure because Im a person who loves to make new friends and meet new people each single day.Whenever I get the run a risk to meet someone new, whether if Im attracted to them or not, I try not to miss the opportunity. I met a girl in the beginning of this semester who is just the most gorgeous girl Ive seen at this school so far. I had to take an opportunity to get to k like a shot this girl and fortunately, she gave me the light of day and now we both are really good friends. Not only does she look beautiful, we both have many of the same similarities such as euphony taste, fashion sense, and other amazing things. When I met her, I used her appearance to draw me to her and from then on, it was the similarities and complementarities.By me using this skill, there have also been some(prenominal) consequences. Ive been shot down by many girls many times because of me being too confident and by trying to get to cognise them way too fast. Unfortunately this skill doesnt always engage to our advantage but it doesnt hurt to try it. Like the disused proverb goes, Youll never know for yourself until you try. I live by that saying because you cant live your life in fear of acquire rejected by people youre attracted to. Just take the chance and run with it. The reason why this skill doesnt work all the time is because of th e mindset of the person that youre attracted to.Is that person already in a relationship? Is that person not looking for a relationship even though they are single? Is the person youre attracted to not attracted to you back? There are many reasons as to why the interdict effects might take place. Overall, never skip out on an opportunity to possibly engage in a lifelong friendship or relationship. Youll never know the outcome until you try. For communication to have center it must have a life. It must transcend you and me and become us. In a small way we then grow out of our doddery selves and become something new. Hugh Prather